Hoe Hoe Hoe? - Fresh-Men: Locker Room Confidential

Is a girl loose if she sleeps with a guy on the first date? Does that double standard exist anymore?

Personally, I do not think that this double standard holds as much weight as it once did. It is safe to say that once we reach a certain age, immature ideologies like this tend to lose traction. As young adults, nobody likes when someone they are interested in, is playing games. We see a growing trend of women being a lot more sexually assertive and taking control and defending their sexual decisions, and guys admire and respect that. If I am out with a girl on our first date, if all of the signs are pointing to a good ending to the evening, and am getting the same vibe from her, I would find it pretty lame that the only reason she isn’t going to have sex with me, is because she does not want to feel like a hoe.

Any man experienced in the dating game can identify a real round the way girl, and with social media as revealing as it is, everyone can do their homework to find out if someone is truly “getting around” or not.

I personally find it attractive when a woman is assertive and lets it be known what it is she wants. It is even more of a turn on when they have that “fuck the gender norms” attitude about it.

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